Incorrect self-evaluation is directly connected with violence. If you have high level of self-evaluation, you may become the rapist. Low self-evaluation makes you a victim – so the young people think, who participated in the work-shops in Tskaltubo, Poti, and Senaki.
Diversity of opinions were held on: what are our efforts to avoid violence.
-I try to prove my advantage during conflict situation, which is a barrier in relations for me. It is caused by me high self-evaluation level and it is not right. In order to manage conflicts, we must have correct self-evaluation – similar opinion was announced after discussion.
Totally 46 young people took part in wor-shops. The pupils plan to continue discussion in their schools with their followers.
 
 
The project is implemented with the support of the organization Brot
 für die Welt – Evangelischer Entwicklunsdienst (Germany)

 

In Kutaisi, Khoni and Tskaltubo workshops with women were held on actual issues: how is gender equality connected with violation against women, is the conflict caused by incorrect allocation of functions in family, what stereotypes form inequality model in our society.
Participants consider that traditional Georgian family discriminates women. Most of women obey to it, but those who try to ruin stereotypes, often become victims of violence.
While discussions with the women there were expressed opinions regarding possibility of creation of gender equality in family. By general point of view, meaning of equality should be equally explained to society and it is necessary to conduct discussions on these issues.
The project is implemented with the support of the organization Brot
 für die Welt – Evangelischer Entwicklunsdienst (Germany)

 

 
“Gender, gender roles, gender education in pre-school premises” – the work-shop on this issue was held in the fund “Sukhumi” for the staff of kindergarten unity. They learned more about the topic of gender and importance of gender approach in the process of work with the children. There were held discussions. At the end of the work-shop the participants expressed will to continue conversation and work about these actual issues.
 
 
The project  is implemented with the support of the Czech non-governmental organization
«The independent socio-environmental movement»

 

 

Воркшопы на тему коммуникации активно прошли с молоджежными группами в Поти, Сенаки и Цхалтубо. Участники обсудили вербальные и невербальные стороны коммуникации.

Как было отмечено, коммуникация напрямую связана с конфликтами. Во время передачи информации должны быть учтены нюансы невербальной  коммуникации, в иных случаях возможно обострение конфликта. Участники воркшопов считают, что полученные информации и практические упражнения помогут им в эффективном управлении конфликтами.

Проект осуществляется при поддержке организации Brot
für die Welt – Evangelischer Entwicklunsdiens (Германия)
 
a workshop on conflict resolution was held with students of upper grades of school №1 - Tskaltubo. The meeting began with information about active 16 active days. Participants were given the symbol of the campaign - white ribbons, leaflets, calendars ...
The meeting was attended by several teachers. Students expressed initiative to conduct informational meetings in frames of the campaign on the topic of violence, and to also to discuss the problem on "class hour."
Then the participants began to discuss the planned issue - the role of the media in the prevention of violence. According to them, the aggression comes from television. There was talk about the positive role of the media. It has been recorded that the media is an important tool against violence, but we must use it effectively.
On this subject there were held workshops in Poti and Koki.
 
The project is implemented with the support of the organization Brot
 für die Welt – Evangelischer Entwicklunsdienst (Germany)

 

 

Many live stories women remembered in the workshops on conflict. It turned out that they have accumulated examples of successful and unsuccessful negotiations. There were also those who have experience in this area:

- I have repeatedly intervened in the conflict between neighbors. Experience has taught me a lot. I learn till today. Not everyone is able to be a facilitator, can. If a person is impulsive, it is better not to interfere. So it is possible to strain the situation even more.

The meeting participants were informed about the meaning of facilitation, mediation, when and how to be involved in order to resolve the conflict.

According to the women received information will give them more courage to be involved in family conflicts in order to avoid violence.

Workshops were held in Kutaisi, Khoni and Khurcha (Zugdidi Municipality).

 
The project is implemented with the support of the organization Brot
 für die Welt – Evangelischer Entwicklunsdienst (Germany)
 
What is self-assessment and what is its connection with development of family conflicts. How to manage conflict and avoid violence - in this direction discussions were held during workshops on conflict with women's groups in Khoni, Kutaisi and Khurcha (Zugdidi Municipality).
- Conflict management is impossible without self-evaluation. Over the years, I am a victim of violence. I thought that if I could not have a child, I should endure everything. When I started to attend the meetings, I found out that I became a victim. Now I'm a completely different person. There are no conflicts in the family, I am respected, - on the background of discussion of these stories many interesting considerations were heard.
Participants believe that patience is not always the right strategy, and does not regulate the conflict.
One of the major components in conflict management is correct self-evaluation. Workshops of the Fund "Sukhumi" helped in it.
 
The project is implemented with the support of the organization Brot
 für die Welt – Evangelischer Entwicklunsdienst (Germany)

 

  

The workshops in Kutaisi, Senaki, Khurcha (Zugdidi Municipality), was attended by women from 30 to 60.

- How our parents brought us, why we make the same mistakes in the relationship with our children, why there are conflicts of generations - interesting discussions were held on these topics.

- We often heared from parents that our generation does not understand anything, behaves badly. When we became parents, we have already begun to repeat this phrase.

- The reason of family conflicts is wrong education. We must not bring up boys as "rulers" of the family, and the girls do not have to constantly put up with everything.

- I always thought that my mother was very strict. We often argued with her on issues such as go to a girlfriend's birthday or not, a walk with friends. In a relationship with children, I repeated the same thing. Unfortunately, I later realized that my mother was always right. Probably my children will also understand it.

At the end of the discussion the participants listened to a psychologist and received appropriate advices.

The project is implemented with the support of the organization Brot
 für die Welt – Evangelischer Entwicklunsdienst (Germany)

On September 20, at the hotel "Prometheus", the group of fund "Sukhumi" took part in a workshop on lessons learned from partners, which was held by PIN - an international organization in frames of the project "Involvement of NGOs working on issues of social protection, in the strategic dialogue in Georgia."

With the help of an invited expert meeting participants familiarized themselves with the experience of the Czech Republic in social advocacy, and shared with each what issues are advocated at local and central levels, what challenges do they face and how they see the issue of viability of the advisor’s council in the future.

Representatives of partner organizations again stressed the importance of the Lessons Learned and expressed their desire to hold such meetings for other members of advisors.

The project is implemented with the support of the Czech organization PIN 

 

- When the equality is violated in the family and takes the form of discrimination - young people held discussions on this issue on the workshops in Poti, Kutaisi and Senaki.

Participants believe that most of the family conflicts are related to the incorrect distribution of functions:

-If in the family the decision takes only one and the other members of the family live at his desire, this is violence.

Unfortunately, most women misunderstand the essence of equality. In their opinion, what happens in their families is common. Therefore, it is difficult for them to realize themselves in society.

According to young people, more work is needed with society to correctly assess what equality in the family is, and to analyze the negative results that lead to gender-based violence.

The project is implemented with the support of the organization Brot
 für die Welt – Evangelischer Entwicklunsdienst (Germany)

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